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If you have a question that you'd like me to answer via audio message, please submit your question using the form below. You can also use the form to submit prayer requests. Please understand that I cannot respond personally to every message, therefore, for every question or email that requires a response, I will either post up a recording (if GOD gives me the wisdom to answer you) or I'll simply pray for you. If I should post a response to your question, I will email you the link. No worries...I will not post/ state your name or any identifying information. I'll simply answer the questions. You can ask your question privately using the form below, or if you'd prefer to post your question publicly, you may do so in the comment section.



In this section, I will be posting up the answers to your submitted questions. Additionally, you can answer any posted questions (comments) if GOD gives you the answer. Please note that anything that goes against the scriptures will be immediately deleted, and repeat offenders will be blocked from commenting on this blog. Profane, illicit, hateful or defamatory remarks will NOT be tolerated.

Question: I've been secretly struggling with watching porn and masturbating.  I don't know what to do.  Could you offer me some advice and pray for me?

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    1. Thanks for answering my question through Facebook~ God bless you~

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  2. Hi Tiffany, I simply love your blogs and videos. You are such a blessing to all women. Eternal Father has blessed you profoundly. Would you be so kind as to write and speak more specifically about the following topics: (1) marriage being a ministry and (2) how the wife is supposed to help her mate with his assignment. Thank you.

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  3. Tiffany I will like to hear you speak on finding the right soul mate ..how do you know the person meant for you it looks like some times the one for you goes away and there's a missed opportunity

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  4. Hello Tiffany, I have really been blessed by your msgs and I have a question that I would like for you to answer (ofcourse, providing that God gives you the answer). I am in my mid 40s but look as though I'm in my late 20s. Most men my age look too old for old for me. Unfortunately the Bible does not mention anything regarding an older woman marrying a younger man. What wisdom can you share regarding whether a God ordained husband could possibly being younger (I would think no more than 7 or 8 years)?

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  5. *be (sorry about the typo-it's early, LOL)

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  6. Hello Tiffany I want to first say how I look forward to your yt videos. They bless me so much and opens my eyes to something new. I also share it with others as well.So thank you sis for really allowing God to you you in such a mighty and powerful way. My question is how do you spot your purpose or calling? Also how to walk by faith without doubting in your heart? More like pointers to wait to see your prayers come to pass.

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  7. hi, i just came to watch your video get rid of the soule tie. actually i am Muslim and i was surprised that what u says is exactly the meaning of islam which is surrender to god. i just got curious to know what is your religion ??

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  8. Hi Tiffany. I've been best friends with a wonderful man of God for over a year. Unfortunately I didn't guard my heart and ended up developing very deep feelings for him. He told me that he asked God if I were his wife and although he never gave me the specific answer he has said a couple times that my husband will be so fortunate to have such an amazing woman like me. We are extremely close, share very intimate details about ourselves with one another and spend many hours on the phone per week (we talk on the phone daily). How do I let go? He has told me many times to 'get out of the way and let God work.' I want so desperately to do so, but I don't know how to just cut off my feelings for him or the disappointment. It also didnt help when he told me that God told him that I would be an amazing wife and that The Lord said that He was going to give me all the things which I had asked for. How can that be when I asked God for him? Please help!

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    1. Hello, His Daughter... I see this post was a couple years ago... I've been going through something similar. How are you doing now and have you gained wisdom that you can share on this kind of situation? God bless...

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  9. Greetings Tiffany, I would like to know if it is okay to specifically ask God the kind of man i would want Him to bless me with? For the bible said " You have not because you ask not". It also said " Ask whatever you need, for it is for my Father's glory that you bear so much fruits", It also said " Delight yourself in the LORD; And He will give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the LORD, Trust also in Him, and He will do it."

    Since i was a teenager, i always had a dream to marry a man from a different race. I don't know where he is gonna originate from but i have a string feeling that he is not from my country. Even though i prayed and believed God for him, i ended up going for less than what i have asked for, due to uncertainty whether God is willing to answer that prayer or it was just a way of the devil to distract me and doubt the ability of God.

    Is it possible for God to give you a husband that you are not attracted to? Can he force you to take that God-ordained man? I mean if you are a tall lady, can God pick a man for you who is shorter than you when He knows you prefer a taller man. They say appearance do not matter but can one marry someone you are not physically attracted to? Jacob was attracted to Rachel for she was beautiful. Right? Or is beauty attraction demonic?

    Thank you so much my beloved sister. God bless you.

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    1. I have the same concern that God may bring me someone I'm not outwardly attracted to, as the man that I have loved and was most attracted to has now left. Has He answered your questions over these last couple years since you posted this? Thank you for sharing...

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  11. Hi Tiffany, i would like you teach about Submission, Respect, Love and Affection. I have one well distinguished preacher say'; Men needs respect and submission from their wives while Women needs love and affection. Would you please share your view on this. I am personally want to know what SUBMISSION real mean in a relationship. Thank you. God bless you richly my sister in the Lord.

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  12. I need to talk to you asap please

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  13. I need to talk to you asap please

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  14. Hi Tiffany. You mentioned in your book that we should right a list of what we seek in a God ordained husband. However does this not mean we're leaning on our own understanding because it' God who knows what's best for us. I've made a list before and I had men with what I wanted come into my life. However the relationships didnt last. In my mind I thought it was because I was leaning on my own understanding. I now decided to leave the whole matter to God.

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  15. Hello,

    I am wanting to follow the instructions in decent and in order by filling out the form however I dont see one. In your most recent video you stated questions would be answered by filling our the form however I dont see it.

    Sister Tiffany for over 20 years I have had dreams that my brother has and is molesting my sisters and neices. I wake up crying. Ive talked to a family member about it and asked that he watch and protect them. My sisters are now grown And I wonder if my brother ever touched them bc one of my sisters dresses
    Like a boy and the other sister now has 2 daughters and They all including my brother live with my mother. Though I pray and beg God to protect my nieces bc I dont know if my brother is/was doing to them as little girls and it haunts me. I am tired of having these dreams. I know God hears my prayers and It breaks my heart to even think about what may be going on if he babysits them and he has a daughter of his own. I believe my mother was molested as a child and no one spoke up for her so I think she would turn a deaf ear concerning molestation. I am asking for prayer if God doesnt speak to you regarding an answer to give. Thank You and I hope this message reaches you to pray for my family and others.

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  16. I found the question formDecember 26, 2015 at 9:44 PM

    Sister Tiffany I found the link to submit my question per your instructions. Thank You for your time.

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  17. I have a soultie and thru your you tube video i just learned that in all my begging and becoming angry and weakness going back because i wasn't able to remove the person from mu thoughts,dreams and spirit all you asked was apologize and repent.it doesn't seem to be that easy..maybe because I'm not sick and tired enough. I was having prayer time with Evangelist Denise Matthews and she was helping to hold me accountable but i failed and here i am at the bottom again. What's wrong. I'm usually able to walk away..this one i can't and he's not so handsome..rich..intellectually inclined..he's quite the opposite and I'm well aware and can't shake it. I wanna make God my everything but this idol hunts me.Help me PLEASE

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  19. Hello I really enjoyed your blog, however I have been knowing a guy for ten years now. We have been in a relationship for 8 years. After 3 years of our relationship we were madly in love and decided to get married. We attempted the court house way until we could save more wedding for a "real"wedding. I was 19 when I met him. After we file for the courthouse wedding he immediately assumed we were officially married and became so abusive! He turned into a monster saying that he owned me and tried to destroy my clothes. he hurt me so much and he knew I had been abused in my childhood. That destroyed our relationship but it didn't stop me from being with him. Our relationship got worse over the years we fought argued broke up so many times as if we hated one another. Sometime later I moved to VA and he followed and we had the biggest break up. It was horrible. He ended u leaving Va and we hadn't spoke in a year. After a year I moved back to our hometown and met back up with him. I then painfully found out he was with aa older woman and 3 kids. He hurt me so bad and chose her over me. We been broken up now for aBout two hears since the big incident in our hometown over his new girlfriend. I have changed my life and I still pray for him I believe He is my husband I have forgiven Him. Be has a calling on his life to be a preacher but he hasn't surrender his life to God I am praying to God I want to know if he is my husband. I am a new creature in Christ and have forgiven him for everything am I wrong to keep in contact with him to encourage him to do the right thing even if he is still in relationhio with someone which doesn't bother anymore? Please help

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  20. Hello,
    I saw your youtube video. Thank you for that. Right now I am in a place where I feel separated from God. I did not have sex. I am 33 and still a virgin. God would not allow me to have sex. I have tried. I am ashamed for going against God and wanting a love from a man. I started my walk over 10 years ago. I was on fire for God and after 6-7 years of seeking I began to desire a man and I soon realized men in the church were not who they seemed. I was naive and was hurt so bad that I decided to give time to a man who is not in the church but he pursued me. I slowly slipped away from Gods voice because of pain. Now, I am hurt from that man. I found out he is married. Every man I cared about have been unavailable (left me for another woman or already interested in another woman). I am saddened at this point. I have a good foundation and I know exactly what to do to get back in God face. God gave me so much to do and I am walking in obedience in that area even though it is so much. I love God I do. I know I need deliverance and consistency. I know fasting , praying and time with God is essential for me right now. Please keep me in prayer. Any words you may have for me would be great.

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  21. Hie Tiffany I have been struggling to pray for a long time now what should I do

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  22. My husband was married before. Prior to both of us hooking up, he was separated from his wife and we were sleeping together. I met him during his separation. Long story short, I have had many sexual partners while in college. Currently, we have been together almost 17 years, but became officially married 2 years ago. I feel like I have grown closer to God and I wanted to get married to him to stop living in sin, and I ultimately do love him. He struggles with drugs and he have so pretty much all during our relationship. We have a son together who is 6. I am 43 and he is 48. The church God lead me to was hand picked for me. My Pastor would always encourage us to get married. He actually did cheat on his previous wife, but has never cheated on me. According to the Bible, sometimes I feel as if he hasn't been delivered from his addiction because God did not put us together, but we put ourselves together. I love him with the love of Christ, but I feel as he is still lost. At the end of the day, I don't know what to do, or how God really views us.

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